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December 2, 2009

pennies, ice chunks, and the beginning of the holiday season in my family

My mother: I can’t believe you didn’t notice.

Me: What?

My mother: We got a new fridge while you were in San Francisco!

Me: That one? It looks exactly like the old one.

My mother: It’s a completely different refrigerator.

Me: Okay. But it looks the same.

My mother: There’s no shelf in the freezer! How did you not see that? And it’s ever so slightly more beige.

Me: I’ve been home for less than six minutes. When would I have noticed that there isn’t a shelf in the freezer? And do you seriously think I made a mental bookmark of which shade of beige your kitchen appliances are?

My mother: I could paint my bedroom red and you wouldn’t notice that either.

Me: That’s not even a little bit the same thing.

My mother: It’s exactly the same thing. Also, the cheese is frozen.

Me: The what?

My mother: There are chunks of ice in the parmesan cheese.

Me: Because you keep it in a shelf-less freezer?

My mother: Because the fridge is too cold!

Me: Turn the temperature up.

My mother: I don’t have any loose change.

Me: ?

My mother: There’s this little groove in the temperature dial and your father says I have to use a penny to turn it.

Me: Let me try.

My mother: I said I don’t have any pennies! Stop messing with it, your fingertips are too large.

Me: My fingertips are normal size.

My mother: I can’t believe you didn’t notice we got a new fridge.

Me: If it makes you feel any better, I noticed that you traded the normal toilet paper for that rough Christmas patterned kind.

My mother: It’s for the holiday guests!

Me: You’re not having any holiday guests.

My mother: I could have holiday guests.

Me: Do you really think these hypothetical holiday guests want to wipe with toilet paper that has multi-colored ink on it? Not to mention that it’s closer to sandpaper than toilet paper. Like, it actually hurts to use it.

My mother: You and your vagina are so demanding. Why can’t you be more festive? I bet Mary didn’t complain this much around the holidays.

Me: Please tell me you’re not going to turn this into an argument about Jesus.

My mother: I was just saying.

Me: You were saying what? That on the night Mary gave miraculous birth in a fucking stable surrounded by dirty animals and men in robes, she wasn’t complaining? You think there’s even the slightest chance that she wasn’t screeching at the top of her lungs about getting all the pain of childbirth without any of the pleasures of sex?

My mother: Jesus wouldn’t hurt Mary on the way out.

Me: *

Posted in: day to day shenanigans, i heart my crazy mother, wtf?!

{ 61 comments… read them below or add one }

Ben December 2, 2009 at 6:37 pm

Wait – do vaginas need to be wiped???

I AM CONSTANTLY CONFUSED BY THEIR FUNCTION AND NEEDS.

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Wonderful December 2, 2009 at 6:38 pm

I had no idea they sold holiday toilet paper!

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Kyla Roma December 2, 2009 at 6:40 pm

LOL Oh my god this is nuts. I love your conversations. You need to have her guest video blog with you, lady. I can't wait for your holidays!

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nicoleisbetter December 2, 2009 at 6:40 pm

Best. Comment. Ever.

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lacey bean December 2, 2009 at 11:44 am

Ummm I just peed a little at “you and your vagina are so demanding”. Hilarious.

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Liz December 2, 2009 at 6:48 pm

Gosh Nicole, you and your abnormally large fingertips.

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Erica December 2, 2009 at 7:14 pm

" You and your vagina are so demanding." I want this on a shirt.

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Jenny December 3, 2009 at 1:47 pm

ME TOO.

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To Kiss the Cook December 2, 2009 at 7:39 pm

As family conversations go, this is an EXCELLENT one. Mary… really??

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Matt December 2, 2009 at 7:55 pm

It's absolutely horrible that cheese got ruined.

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nicoleisbetter December 4, 2009 at 6:02 am

See? YES! THE BIGGER PICTURE. I totally just mentally licked your face.

Out of love, of course. TRUE LOVE.

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A Super Girl December 2, 2009 at 8:06 pm

This just can't be real. I second the joint vlog idea!!

Hilarious :-)

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Doniree December 2, 2009 at 8:12 pm

Video blog! Video blog!

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Jess December 2, 2009 at 8:17 pm

LMAO. I love you.

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Slightly Undone December 2, 2009 at 8:20 pm

LOL awesome. This makes me miss my mom :)

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Angela December 2, 2009 at 8:23 pm

Maybe Jesus was in a hurry to rescue the world from crappy Christmas toilet paper. Just a thought.

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Erin December 2, 2009 at 8:25 pm

I am in love with this. Hilarious!

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carissajaded December 2, 2009 at 8:27 pm

Now I'm in some definite need of Holiday toilet paper… but I want the soft kind…And your conversation with your mother pretty much sounds like every conversation I have with mine! It stressed me out just reading it! haha

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Chelsea Talks Smack December 2, 2009 at 8:28 pm

Turning an argument into something to do with Jesus is one of my favorite things to do ever. I mean, I love blaming things on him.

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mjb December 2, 2009 at 8:32 pm

I can't imagine having this kind of conversation with my mother, although I think it's often happening right under the surface. She does like to play a little game where I have to notice all of the changes she's made the two times a year I go home. If I don't comment, she calls me out on it.

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Min December 2, 2009 at 8:32 pm

this post just made my day ! (:

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katelin December 2, 2009 at 9:17 pm

seriously your family needs a reality show, it would be an instant hit.

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lovesfool December 2, 2009 at 9:28 pm

This is the most awesome story i've ever heard

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Mike Siete Cinco December 2, 2009 at 9:31 pm

Every time I see the sweet back and forth between you and your mom, I always picture your dad listening at a safe distance, but not getting involved. Does your pops ever get into these discussions, or does he wisely stay away?

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nora December 2, 2009 at 9:50 pm

This is definitely better than most of the conversations I've had today. Seriously. I pretty much love it.

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Shaba December 2, 2009 at 9:58 pm

I love your family.

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Dijea December 2, 2009 at 10:08 pm

There is no way colored TP is good for vaginas.

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Coach J December 2, 2009 at 10:27 pm

Holy shit! Is your mother channeling my mother?

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Kaci December 2, 2009 at 3:39 pm

My head just exploded a little bit for you.

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Jaime December 2, 2009 at 11:16 pm

Your poor lady bits!

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DShan December 2, 2009 at 11:18 pm

Tell your mother I'd love to use her scatchy multi-colored FESTIVE toilet paper and that little 5 pound 9 ounce baby Jesus basically slipped out of Mary like a jello shot to a plastic cup, because he loved his mother and so do you.

Oh, and your fingers are perfect, Nicole.

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Mel December 2, 2009 at 11:22 pm

"Jesus wouldn’t hurt Mary on the way out."

Is your mom insinuating that you hurt her on purpose? :)

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Rich DeMatteo December 3, 2009 at 12:40 am

Don't argue, having a christmas colored vagina might not be the worst thing

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Kendall_A December 3, 2009 at 12:54 am

Your mom wins at life. I can just imagine the expression on your face at the end of that. Classic.

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Lisa December 3, 2009 at 1:57 am

I heart your mother. I do, I do!

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Ashley December 3, 2009 at 2:22 am

Haha I love your conversations with your mom. this reminds me of when I first got home and my mom blamed me for not noticing the new painting in the living room, the room I hadn't even been in yet. Mothers….

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bex December 3, 2009 at 3:08 am

I don't know, Nicole, your mother's reasoning is pretty solid.

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Sara December 3, 2009 at 3:38 am

This totally made me laugh. I would be nervous as a holiday guest to even use colored TP. Extra chemical to make it look that way? No TY

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Melissa December 3, 2009 at 4:54 am

I vote video blog. :)

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Michelle December 3, 2009 at 5:16 am

I dearly love reading your conversations with your mother.

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That Kind of Girl December 3, 2009 at 6:16 am

Oh my goodness, reading this was exactly but exactly like going home. Like, I'm practically picking cat hair out of my teeth as we speak. Yikes.

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That Kind of Girl December 3, 2009 at 6:16 am

Oh my goodness, reading this was exactly but exactly like going home. Like, I'm practically picking cat hair out of my teeth as we speak. Yikes.

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Josef December 3, 2009 at 1:09 pm

Do guests leave the house with red and green nether regions and/or posteriors? I admire your way of writing a conversation here. it's almost like a play. That ending is classic!

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Jenny December 3, 2009 at 1:47 pm

I think this would be a fantastic t-shirt: "You and your vagina are so demanding."

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Jenny December 3, 2009 at 1:48 pm

Wait, your mom didn't buy napkins and mistake if for TP did she?

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Tisha December 3, 2009 at 4:37 pm

Haha. I made the mistake of reading this post with my morning coffee and nearly spit the hazelnut goodness all over my monitor when I read the last line! Your mother cracks me up! Great writing…love your posts.

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Jesse Munoz December 3, 2009 at 4:43 pm

This is one of the funniest posts I have ever read. I am adding you to my blogroll. You are such a fantastic writer.

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ShandaR December 3, 2009 at 8:25 pm

HILARIOUS!!!! I promise you need your own reality show!

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Lauren G. December 3, 2009 at 10:38 pm

I've been reading for a while – thought I would say hi since this post just made me spit coffee all over my keyboard after reading about your demanding vagina and the brilliant Jesus tie in! Love your writing!

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Elle December 4, 2009 at 12:35 am

LOL!!!!

I hope one day there is a movie made on your life and your mother is a co-star. I will be the first in line!

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terra December 4, 2009 at 3:04 pm

HAHAHAHAHAHA! I love it!

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@SFNoobs December 4, 2009 at 11:11 pm

you should start a shitmymomsays Twitter account, ala http://twitter.com/Shitmydadsays. That's friken hilarious!

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Laura December 5, 2009 at 1:54 am

Thanks for brightening my morning!

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TherapeuticRamblings December 5, 2009 at 6:29 pm

Color me shocked that your mother could include your vagina and Mary in the same sentence!! LOL.

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Stephen K December 7, 2009 at 6:15 pm

Your mum is actually like that? It is plain for us to see that the apple doesn't fall far from the proverbial! You two are like R-rated Gilmore Girls :D

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Veronica December 9, 2009 at 6:43 am

Your mom totally owned you there. And she is probably my mom's twin.

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Tabitha December 10, 2009 at 7:45 pm

I officially LOVE your mom. She is ridiculous. :-P

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floreta December 13, 2009 at 3:33 am

LMAO!! this would be an excellent movie!!!

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Kelly December 30, 2009 at 3:01 am

the demanding vagina comment has me in stitches!

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Chris January 4, 2010 at 9:23 am

haha that's just made me laugh so hard.

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Darron Commer October 31, 2010 at 3:37 pm

pronounced diary you corner

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