Comments on: how to deal with heartbreak http://nicoleisbetter.com/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak deliciously vulgar Thu, 29 Jul 2010 12:33:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=6882 By: feeling.lost http://nicoleisbetter.com/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak#comment-18404 feeling.lost Wed, 21 Jul 2010 04:31:06 +0000 http://nicoleisbetter.com/?p=597#comment-18404 it's been three weeks...feeling all of the above...this helps with all the confusion...thank you for this...but the sun did shine today, and this made me smile... it’s been three weeks…feeling all of the above…this helps with all the confusion…thank you for this…but the sun did shine today, and this made me smile…

]]> By: lizfits http://nicoleisbetter.com/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak#comment-18379 lizfits Mon, 19 Jul 2010 13:52:42 +0000 http://nicoleisbetter.com/?p=597#comment-18379 So I hadn't ever actually read this before, because I'm too lazy to go back through your old blogs because I'm a bad blog reader and I have short attention spans and the excuses continue. ANYWAY. I did read it since someone just mentioned it in your comments from yesterday's post. I just totally tried to type "yesterday" as "yester'day." True story. I'm glad I'm not the only one who felt this. I mean, not because I'm glad ANYONE has to feel this, because it sucks a lot, but I'm glad I'm not just a psycho, and that other people react the same way. Validation, you know. So I hadn’t ever actually read this before, because I’m too lazy to go back through your old blogs because I’m a bad blog reader and I have short attention spans and the excuses continue.

ANYWAY. I did read it since someone just mentioned it in your comments from yesterday’s post. I just totally tried to type “yesterday” as “yester’day.” True story.

I’m glad I’m not the only one who felt this. I mean, not because I’m glad ANYONE has to feel this, because it sucks a lot, but I’m glad I’m not just a psycho, and that other people react the same way. Validation, you know.

]]> By: Janice :) http://nicoleisbetter.com/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak#comment-18082 Janice :) Tue, 29 Jun 2010 00:47:11 +0000 http://nicoleisbetter.com/?p=597#comment-18082 My boyfriend just broke up with me last night, and its just terrible. This blog post made me realize I'm not alone. I'll get over it. Eventually. My boyfriend just broke up with me last night, and its just terrible. This blog post made me realize I’m not alone. I’ll get over it. Eventually.

]]> By: Ashley http://nicoleisbetter.com/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak#comment-17965 Ashley Thu, 17 Jun 2010 12:58:44 +0000 http://nicoleisbetter.com/?p=597#comment-17965 This helped me the most, since my breakup was just last night and its the most realistic thing Ive ever read. Thank you so much!! This helped me the most, since my breakup was just last night and its the most realistic thing Ive ever read. Thank you so much!!

]]> By: Craig http://nicoleisbetter.com/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak#comment-17904 Craig Sun, 13 Jun 2010 12:02:00 +0000 http://nicoleisbetter.com/?p=597#comment-17904 I think the hardest part is when you can't move on and they do. My ex casually threw into a conversation (after I stupidily agreed to meet for coffee) that she's "dating" i.e sleeping with other people. I was crushed. I don't want anyone else, and she seemed to take pleasure from telling me. And then, the next night, I got drunk and called her and she was so cool and calm and I was left weeping like a child. The thought of her with someone else slices my soul. There's a great line in a Crowded House song "It would cause me pain if we were to end this. But I will start again, you can depend on it". And by god, this is killing me, but I will survive!! I think the hardest part is when you can’t move on and they do. My ex casually threw into a conversation (after I stupidily agreed to meet for coffee) that she’s “dating” i.e sleeping with other people. I was crushed. I don’t want anyone else, and she seemed to take pleasure from telling me. And then, the next night, I got drunk and called her and she was so cool and calm and I was left weeping like a child. The thought of her with someone else slices my soul. There’s a great line in a Crowded House song “It would cause me pain if we were to end this. But I will start again, you can depend on it”. And by god, this is killing me, but I will survive!!

]]> By: Nicole http://nicoleisbetter.com/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak#comment-17842 Nicole Tue, 08 Jun 2010 17:10:35 +0000 http://nicoleisbetter.com/?p=597#comment-17842 I read this months ago and laughed my ass off. Now im not laughing and created a dumb star book to attempt to stay sain!! RIDIC!!! I read this months ago and laughed my ass off. Now im not laughing and created a dumb star book to attempt to stay sain!! RIDIC!!!

]]> By: Joy http://nicoleisbetter.com/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak#comment-17832 Joy Mon, 07 Jun 2010 05:56:36 +0000 http://nicoleisbetter.com/?p=597#comment-17832 When your heart is broken, your soul is shattered. I'm still at the point where I do not find pleasure in anything I do. And it's been four days, more like an eternity since my life took this wild turn. People keep saying time is the best healer but at times, you feel like your pain gets worse as the days go by. Seeing that he seems to be fine only drags me further down. I can't wait for that day when I wake up and I find that tiny bit of happiness in my life again, one that has nothing to do with him. I dedicated myself to him and now I feel empty. Just enough tears to fill out the sea. Though I try to remain positive, this pain is almost unbearable. I can barely feel my heart beat..almost as if it's dying out. When your heart is broken, your soul is shattered. I’m still at the point where I do not find pleasure in anything I do. And it’s been four days, more like an eternity since my life took this wild turn. People keep saying time is the best healer but at times, you feel like your pain gets worse as the days go by. Seeing that he seems to be fine only drags me further down. I can’t wait for that day when I wake up and I find that tiny bit of happiness in my life again, one that has nothing to do with him. I dedicated myself to him and now I feel empty. Just enough tears to fill out the sea. Though I try to remain positive, this pain is almost unbearable. I can barely feel my heart beat..almost as if it’s dying out.

]]> By: Colin http://nicoleisbetter.com/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak#comment-17831 Colin Mon, 07 Jun 2010 00:17:34 +0000 http://nicoleisbetter.com/?p=597#comment-17831 It's been nearly 3 months since I posted the story about my long-distance breakup on here, and I can honestly say that it's been getting slowly better. I still have mood swings beyond my control and tend to suddenly break out in tears, but deep inside I know that I was lied to and I don't deserve her anyway. She texted me out of nowhere 2 nights ago confessing how much she loves and misses me, but I decided it was probably best to ignore her, the way she ignored me when she promised to be there for me; all of this despite how much I still do truly love and miss her. But I hate her, too. I'll be seeing her in roughly 3 weeks when I go to visit her brother, who I've been friends with since before I even knew of her existence (Ah, good times... Lol). That should be both a fun and painful experience... Life's rough. :( It’s been nearly 3 months since I posted the story about my long-distance breakup on here, and I can honestly say that it’s been getting slowly better. I still have mood swings beyond my control and tend to suddenly break out in tears, but deep inside I know that I was lied to and I don’t deserve her anyway. She texted me out of nowhere 2 nights ago confessing how much she loves and misses me, but I decided it was probably best to ignore her, the way she ignored me when she promised to be there for me; all of this despite how much I still do truly love and miss her. But I hate her, too. I’ll be seeing her in roughly 3 weeks when I go to visit her brother, who I’ve been friends with since before I even knew of her existence (Ah, good times… Lol). That should be both a fun and painful experience… Life’s rough. :(

]]> By: Elizabeth http://nicoleisbetter.com/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak#comment-17787 Elizabeth Thu, 03 Jun 2010 21:52:24 +0000 http://nicoleisbetter.com/?p=597#comment-17787 Ugh, this rang all too true. I am on day 3 and I haven't slept, cannot eat a thing, and just want to sleep for the next 6 months and wake up and have all of this pain over with. Ugh, this rang all too true. I am on day 3 and I haven’t slept, cannot eat a thing, and just want to sleep for the next 6 months and wake up and have all of this pain over with.

]]> By: Sharlyn http://nicoleisbetter.com/how-to-deal-with-heartbreak#comment-17637 Sharlyn Fri, 14 May 2010 22:41:06 +0000 http://nicoleisbetter.com/?p=597#comment-17637 i completely know what that feels like. 110%. mine had less airplanes but just as much sneaking around to talk to him/ cry WITH him about breaking up/ sleep with him. ridiculous. never ever ever ever again will i do that to myself. ever. worst part? we're from a VERY small town. people STILL encourage us to get back together as if we weren't the most dysfunctional couple on the face of the earth. and i still see him. mostly at basketball games (our little brothers are on the same team) and driving on the road, we live in the same area of town.. and work in the same (but totally different from where we live) area of town. it took me over a year to finally get over our 3 year relationship. some days i still have the "what the fuck am i doing? why did i give up so easily" moments.. and then i realize.. i didn't give up easily. i tried and tried and tried and tried until i absolutely could not try anymore. but you know what? i'm happy again. happier now than i ever thought i could be again. it took a while.. 1 year and 4 months? but i'm happy. and i hope your friend (and you) will be too. p.s. i also threw myself a party when i didn't talk to him for 60 days. literally.. a party!! haha. i completely know what that feels like. 110%. mine had less airplanes but just as much sneaking around to talk to him/ cry WITH him about breaking up/ sleep with him. ridiculous. never ever ever ever again will i do that to myself. ever. worst part? we’re from a VERY small town. people STILL encourage us to get back together as if we weren’t the most dysfunctional couple on the face of the earth. and i still see him. mostly at basketball games (our little brothers are on the same team) and driving on the road, we live in the same area of town.. and work in the same (but totally different from where we live) area of town. it took me over a year to finally get over our 3 year relationship. some days i still have the “what the fuck am i doing? why did i give up so easily” moments.. and then i realize.. i didn’t give up easily. i tried and tried and tried and tried until i absolutely could not try anymore. but you know what? i’m happy again. happier now than i ever thought i could be again. it took a while.. 1 year and 4 months? but i’m happy. and i hope your friend (and you) will be too.
p.s. i also threw myself a party when i didn’t talk to him for 60 days. literally.. a party!! haha.

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